About
Meet Renata
Certified Adlerian coach helping women build real relationship capability through emotional clarity, self-trust, and conscious choice. Whether you are navigating dating patterns, career self-doubt, imposter syndrome, or a life transition, this work meets you where you are and helps you move forward with courage.
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Why this work matters to me
I became a coach because I kept seeing the same thing: smart, capable women who had built impressive lives but felt stuck, discouraged, or lost when it came to love. What looked like a dating problem was almost always something deeper - a pattern of self-doubt, people-pleasing, over-giving, or choosing partners based on chemistry instead of compatibility. These patterns are not flaws. They are strategies that once made sense, and they can be changed once they become visible.
That is why my work is not about quick tips, texting rules, or manifesting the right person. It is about helping women understand themselves more honestly - the private logic driving their choices, the hidden expectations shaping their standards, and the beliefs about love they absorbed long before they started dating. When women see their own patterns clearly, they stop repeating them. They start choosing differently, relating with more courage, and building partnerships from a foundation of self-trust rather than fear.
Why Adlerian coaching
I chose Adlerian psychology because it is both compassionate and responsible. It does not reduce people to their wounds or diagnose what is wrong with them. Instead, it helps us understand purposiveness - the idea that every behavior serves a goal, even when that goal is unconscious. It looks at how discouragement, belonging, private logic, and life-style patterns shape the way we relate, choose, and protect ourselves. For women navigating love, career, perfectionism, or identity shifts, this framework provides real clarity without shame.
At the center of my relationship work is the Partnership Competence Model, built on three pillars: reciprocity, autonomy, and self-esteem. These are the capabilities that make lasting, healthy partnerships possible. Most dating advice skips this entirely and focuses on attraction tactics or performance. Adlerian coaching builds the actual skills of partnership - the ability to give and receive equally, to maintain your identity inside a relationship, and to show up from a place of honest self-worth rather than people-pleasing or fear of being alone.
Want to experience this work directly?
If this approach resonates with you, the next step is simple. A free clarity call gives us space to look at where you are and whether this coaching fits what you need.
What makes this work different
Not surface advice
We go beneath scripts, texting rules, and dating performance. Instead of teaching you how to act on a first date, we uncover the beliefs and private logic that drive your choices in love - so change happens at the root, not just the surface.
Not blame
Adlerian coaching uses encouragement, not shame. We look honestly at your patterns and choices, but we do it with compassion and curiosity. Responsibility is empowering here, not punishing. You are not broken - you are discouraged, and that can shift.
Not passivity
This is not about waiting for the universe to deliver the right person. It is about building relationship capability - the emotional clarity, boundaries, self-trust, and communication skills that make healthy love possible. Every session ends with concrete, aligned action.
Not only about dating
Dating may be your entry point, but this work reaches into every area of your life. Women who come for relationship coaching often discover shifts in how they handle career decisions, set boundaries at work, navigate family dynamics, and trust themselves more broadly. The same Adlerian principles apply everywhere.
The values behind my work
- Emotional clarity over confusion
- Courage over comfort
- Responsibility without blame
- Equality and reciprocity in relationships
- Conscious choice over reactive patterns